I now know what this phrase truly means. You gain knowledge by experiencing things in life,
I can say that I've been through a lot. This phrase actually says that how can you love someone when you don't love yourself ? Putting others in front of you while you suffer and rot. Being in love means being equal, even if you love that person so much, you have to know when to let go because loving yourself means that you have to stand up for yourself. The outcome for not loving yourself would either be you hurting yourself or him/she hurting you. You know that when you love yourself you won't let anything bad happen to you. So my advice here is before you love anyone else, learn to love yourself first.
This is just things from my own point of view, this is not from something that a professional counselor or anyone that's in a professional field. Just me, a 17 year old high school student who has been observing pretty much everything.
I guess why I'm not in any relationship is that I have yet to learn to love myself. As someone who has depression and anxiety, its really hard to maintain a good relationship because you tend to distance yourself from people who really cares. Everyone deserves to be loved and perhaps not everyone meet the right person. This is just a thought, well most of my blog posts are my own personal thoughts.
Never lie, never cheat, never play around with people's feelings.
Thanks for reading.
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